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Detours On The Path Of Life

17/11/2012

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Detours On The Path Of
LifeBy: Wendy
Betterini




The other day I was clearing out my
home office in preparation for our  upcoming move, when I stumbled upon a box of
supplies left over from an  old business opportunity I had undertaken several
years ago. It was a  perfectly fine business opportunity, but it wasn't for me.
Looking back, I knew even then that it wasn't right for me, but I had
determinedly  ignored my inner voice and pursued it anyway.


As I sorted through this box of paperwork and supplies, I felt my face flame
with embarrassment and regret. How could I have been
so stupid to think I could ignore my true calling and pursue another path because it
seemed easier at the time? Evidence that  revealed how hard I had tried to make
it work was strewn throughout the  box: records of appointments and training classes I'd attended,
brochures I'd designed, sales letters I had painstakingly written, and even motivational notes I'd
written to encourage myself to keep going.

It's an
uncomfortable feeling, facing a box full of regrets. I thought  about all the
time I'd wasted on that business opportunity, and wondered where I'd be today if
I had just listened to my inner calling from the beginning.


As I began emptying the box and shredding old paperwork, I
began to feel a little lighter and my thoughts began to drift. Was
the time I spent on that business  opportunity really wasted? In hindsight, I
can see that it wasn't. I  learned so much from that experience, some of it
having to do with  business - but mostly about myself. Even though it wasn't my
true  calling, I would still have to acknowledge that it was time well-spent. I
simply took a detour on my life path. Perhaps my reasons (fear and denial) weren't the most lofty,
but the experience was no less valuable.

Perhaps you have a
box full of regrets hidden in your closet, even if only on an
emotional level. Do you regret jobs you've held in  the past, or relationships
you clung to even when they didn't seem to  contribute anything of value to your
life? Do you wish you had gone to college when you were younger, or do
you  wish you had chosen another major? Are there choices you made in the  past
that make you cringe with embarrassment now?

Most of us have
a tendency to be really hard on ourselves, expecting perfection and nothing less. But it's
unrealistic to expect ourselves to make perfect  decisions every single time.
There are too many unknown factors that  could come into play, and even when we're absolutely sure
we're making the right choice, it might not turn out the way we
expected.

When you stop to think about it, there really
aren't any right or wrong  decisions in life. Each choice simply moves us down a
different path,
and we can learn something valuable from each of them. Just because
something  didn't work out like we thought it would doesn't mean it wasn't
  worthwhile.

However, in my experience, the journey becomes
much more enjoyable if we take the time to listen to our heart. When we let our
inner voice guide us to the choices that feel most right, that's when the real
magic  begins to happen. Our lessons become richer and more meaningful. We feel a
sense of excitement and inspiration as we embark on a
new pathway with each choice we make. Even our  "mistakes" seem more valuable,
if not downright funny. We can laugh at  our foibles and learn from them. Most
importantly, we realize that the journey itself is the destination.


As the saying goes, "hindsight is 20/20". Our vision is much
clearer  when we look back with the knowledge we have today. But if we always
had the ability to see the big picture, wouldn't that defeat the purpose of a
life spent learning and growing? We're not supposed to
have all the answers right now. I think many of us tend to forget that from time to
time.

My box of regrets is gone now, and in fact, I no longer see them
as regrets. Instead, I've got a big empty  box that I'm eager to start filling
with new experiences. Will I look  back and feel red-faced about them at a
future time? Possibly. Or maybe I'll simply smile and be grateful for the chance to
learn and
grow some more. :-)





About the Author: Wendy Betterini is
a freelance writer specializing in self-improvement and personal development concepts.
Visit her website, www.WingsForTheHeart.com for free articles
on positive thinking, goal-setting, self-esteem, personal growth, and
more.

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